As for money, well, realistically you'll both need to make probably $500k each a year for 1 kid. If you want more then 1, then your income will need to increase. A $50k a year job is poverty. Reality check.
For me, I don't have children in middle class heaven unless all my conditions are met, 100%, not just money but the man, himself LMAO
I rarely settle down into middle class heaven to have children, life time after life time. That's not my thing, never was. I play the game of life, completely differently then your average female. Most can't figure it out and never will. I'm not a robot, you can't cookie cut me LMAO.
If having children and your own family is the number one priority in your life, I suggest you start out young or forget it. Too many obstacles here on planet earth, target 1. Reality check. LMAO. I'm not you, so I have no idea how you will make $500k a year and of course meet and marry a man that does too. LMAO.
Unless of course you're from a rich family and they're gonna pay for it? Then ok LMAO. I've never seen any rich family pay/give their son or daughter $500k a year just to get married and have children. That's very weird. But maybe somewhere on this planet you can find that. LMAO.
You're best bet, find and marry a billionaire, you know get a rich man LMAO. You'll have to chase him, and some how manipulate your way into a rich marriage. You can try getting knocked up, a guarantee for child support payments first if things don't go according to your plans 100%, then you can wait until things fall into place as your back up plan and if they don't, you can marry some other rich man LMAO. After all, you are in the same social circles and everybody knows your name now, TMZ and court.
Just remember look good and smile for the cameras. LMAO. Btw this also holds true for men too. Get a rich woman LMAO or Sugar Momma LMAO. After she gives birth or a surrogate, court, for child support payments, TMZ for a new woman or finally marriage etc etc, you can be a stay at home dad etc etc. Whatever your plans are, deception, manipulation and lies will do the trick. LMAO