I'm not into BDSM, it's abuse and torture to get an O or O's.
This movie is cinderella, I can already tell from the trailer, plus Hollywood's fav format, it's a for sure winner at the box office.
Without seeing this movie, my guess is lonely poor Anastasia Steele meets her prince charming who sweeps her off her feet and brings her into his world of BDSM. He's all about control in and out of the boardroom. BDSM is not love, it's abuse, torture, pain and Mr. Grey will cause her these things to get his O's. In this movie it will be dressed up, glamorized to look and feel good visually. Make you go, maybe thats what's missing in my life.
I'll watch it, I don't get a sexual rise from pain, abuse and torture, but some men and women do. This is where rape fantasies come into play as well as other scenerios.
I love costumes, role playing games in the real world, you can cheat on me with me. As I'm older, dressing up as a Catholic School Girl, a Cheerleader, a Naughty Girl Scout, Alice In Gothland etc etc doesn't really work but I can dress up as a Lawyer, Doctor, Waitress etc etc outside of the bedroom, so many ways to cheat on you with you too or hee hee. We can play this game,