I also found our bad past lives pre earth. There was no good past lives pre earth, all negative, bad. I only need 2 past lives as a comparable for me to find his SOP and where he's at on the tone scale in regards to the 2D, based on his actions.
I was a cop and so was he, he was my first, and we were also partners. I fell in love with him and we got married and I had one kid. He on the other hand became distant and I didn't know why. I tried to make it work but he had other plans. He was going to a strip club and met a stripper there and started having an affair unbeknownst to me. He decided it was easier to kill me, get my pension and not pay child support. My family, my entire family was in law enforcement but I didn't live in the same city as them. My father encouraged me to work things out because we had a child, and I still loved him, so I tried to do that. We set up a meeting to meet and I left my gun at home without the bullets, he went around town, telling everybody I was crazy and I wanted to kill him because I found out about his affair, he basically blackmailed me and I trusted him. It never occurred to me that by trusting him, I would die. So I went to the place we were suppose to meet and he was late. I was on the phone calling him when some criminals came in and my presence surprised them and they killed me. It went quick. There was an undercover cop within that group unbeknownst to my husband and he did an investigation and put 2&2 together, my husband was having an affair and wanted me dead so he could get my pension and not pay child support. The undercover agent dropped buzzwords to where they went to have meetings in regards to crimes to my husband and that's where we were suppose to meet. My husband knew that they would kill me, I was interrogating these men as part of my job. High School Dude set me up to be killed by criminals. After my death, he got with the stripper girl and married her. A few years past and the undercover agent was finished with his assignment and did his reports and debriefs. As part of his investigation he found out my family was in law enforcement, so the portion about me, he sent a copy of the report to my family to inform them. He had no choice but to kill me cause he was undercover, this was part of his job. He also knew that my husband was gonna do it anyway regardless, if not this scenerio, he would find another one. He was determined not to pay child support and get my pension, it was just a matter of time, how, who etc etc. My family got the report, the truth and understood. High School Dude ended up going to jail for my murder. Whether he died in jail or after he got out by my family, I don't know. But either way, he was fucked. My family ended up raising my kid.
Another life, I was working with children and abused children and he was in that field as well. Again, he was my first. We got married and had 2 children, 2 boys. The girl he originally wanted to marry wasn't ready so I was his 2nd option unbeknownst to me. A few years later, after my 2nd kid, she came back into the picture and was ready to get married. He again became distant, he started an affair with her. They both conspired against me, to get me out of the way. I got accused of pedafilia with my boys, false accusations, she coaxed my boys against me and I lost custody of the children, but I didn't go to jail. I lost my job, my pension, my kids, my entire life. He moved her right in, a new mother, a replacement for me, just like that. I left to start over again. I headed out to the big city and started my own business. There I met an awesome man and we got married. I told him about what happened and he helped me get my children back, in the course of that investigation, we both found out that, that woman he replaced me with, his 1st choice, she sexually abused my 2 sons. I was heartbroken, that not only was I set up but he put our children in harms way, his children by DNA in harms way and couldn't or wouldn't see that she was a female pedafile. After many years, I not only cleared my name but got custody back of my sons, they were in their teens, so I sent them to boarding school. All that time we lost because of him and her.
So these two lives were enough for me to compare in regards to his personality and his SOP. This person is extremely selfish, it's all about his needs, his feelings, his, his and his so much so to the detriment of his own children. And he's incredibly stingy and greedy about money. He's a criminal cop in past lives and now in present time. He is an SP, this is what SP's have done in your past lives, on purpose. It's enough info to make a decision in regards to this life. It was not easy to deal with, because there was love for him in my heart and soul. So to revisit those past lives and experience it again in present time, the betrayal, the breaking my heart and not to mention my death was not fun at all but needed to be done, it needed to be confronted, the truth needed to be confronted, so that I could put the past behind me and move forward with my life with no why/whys but the truth. In my religion we stay clear of SP's, we label correctly and not get involved. He had no remorse in those past lives, he felt he didn't do anything wrong and he is evil. So you label and stay clear of evil.
His actions in present time make sense, now to me. He never loved me, he just used me and abused me in those past lives and in present time, he would do the same, that is his SOP. If you get involved meaning have a 2D with somebody like this, chances are pretty high that you aren't gonna be bypassing eternal damnation nor breaking the cycle of reincarnation, not to mention lead a happy life. People like this will stop you from going up a bridge to hide their crimes in present time and they are pretty mean and evil.
These kinds of SP's don't change and he would be part of the 2%. There are so many other men out there, that I haven't met yet that are not SPs and I had great, awesome past lives with.
And you do to. Apply tech and you will be just fine. This is also called negative case gain in my religion. There is positive, but before you get to that, you have to spot the SP's on your lines and label them and get them off your lines so you can meet the men who really loved you, were in love with you and cherished the ground you walked on.