For me it was romantic, something we could tell people and our kids, how mom and dad got engaged. But it didn't bother me that much after things ended. It was more of a reminder, the Sea Org, I routed onto my EPF on Valentines day.
Going back into the Sea Org was way more romantic then a proposal on Valentine's day, wow, big fuckin deal, no ring, just a proposal.
I used to want just wedding bands with inscriptions, I thought that was romantic, but now after my journeys, I'm like everybody else, I want that big rock LMAO and love, both.
I deserve nothing but the best of best, elite. Cause I am. Just like you.