My experience, my life's journey comes into play in regards to mothering.
Most men, won't nor can't go there, for a gazillion reasons, and that's ok, I'm not you nor do I need a man.
The kids will be 10 years old or older, and if they were put on psych drugs, I'll still help them cross the wall of fire so they can get to target 3 when they get older and drop their bods. They will bypass eternal damnation and break the cycle of reincarnation.
The man I marry this life, won't be a pedafile otherwise my kids will out him, their comm will never be cut, ever again by anybody. Any criminal guys and gals that come near me or them in any capacity, oh well, you'll be set up for death, my kids, on this level, need a punching bag for good and you're evil so, they'll have carte blanche to fuck you up, covert ops and I'll approve or LMAO maybe they'll even vid tape it. Our family entertainment, watching you get fucked up or LMAO