He has to be smart, not an airhead and he's not computational, computing up a storm every second of the day but instead he's there 100% completely in the moments with me. He also grants me beingness and isn't abusive nor corrupt.
And the chemistry I'm talking about is good chemistry, passion cause we had good, great past lives together, we never fucked each other over nor murdered the other for any reason like for example with Scott O'Malley where he raped and murdered me in our past lives and I was in love with him. He's not an abuser, user nor a Loser.
He's fun not boring nor a snoozefest, we enjoy each other's company and don't want harm to come to either of us.
As for astrological sign, if he's an ares, great, that's my ideal astro sign that I'm compatible with. I've met alot of ares and we had great chemistry in regards to witty banter but they were just guys on a friend level, litterly neither of us were attracted to the other in that respect. Leo's and Sagittarius's I won't get involved with, Leo's are too arrogant, too big of an ego to deal with and Sagi's, Jon Mackinder is a Sag like me. I also won't marry any Virgo's, my ex husband was a Virgo and he was extremely boring, besides no chemistry, he was boring, a snoozefest, terrible in bed, a terrible lover and couldn't chase nor figure shit out to save his life.
He'll be in the age range of either 10 years older then me or 10 years younger. And kids are not a deal breaker.
The guy I marry will also be a cop, not necessarily in law enforcement now, not only is he an awesome lover, does chase, can figure shit out but he's also fun, he's action all the way, action and adventure is his middle name. He loves games like me, he's a playa LMAO not head fucking mind games but the game of life, he's not a cheater, coward nor a liar.