Well, 1st all criminal men are feminine energy males, you can change and become a masculine energy female and go down in flames with them or you use the out clause, sever your soulmate ties and end cycle on the terminal in regards to a 2d or in other words, say no and not get involved, based on his ethics and morals.
Why should you change your ethics and morals to be with a guy, just cause he's your wholetrack 2d/soulmate, that means you now get to go down degradation lane, lose your soul and your eternity not to mention be miserable for the rest of your life? Doesn't make sense, common sense.
So you use the out clause, Ethics and Morals and get a new wholetrack 2d/soulmate, one that has high ethical and moral standards like you, he won't take you down degradation lane and you won't be miserable for the rest of your life, you will be very happy and fulfilled.
I've gone thru down the wholetrack ie millions and millions and millions of years, thru more then one wholetrack 2d/soulmate, I've had more then one, I realized that after I unspun my case. I used the out clause and got another one, a new one. Not a big deal.
In regards to having a vibe, you can have that with your new soulmate/wholetrack 2d, you know where they are tapped into your frequency, they can feel you, you can feel them etc etc, it's very easy to establish, you 100% commit to them and they 100% commit to you. It's totally fun when you have that psychic ability with your one and they are honest not using it to manipulate you nor abuse you, it's a fun game.