I'm not interested in this type of a marriage. I don't want to fit into my soulmates life, I want to fit into his heart and soul.
When it's real love, you restructure your lives, you make it work, and then it just fits, naturally, normally.
What these men are saying is they don't want that, it's too much work, they don't want real love, they assume they can buy, purchase women like common whores, so that is what they will get, common whores. You get what you pay for or LMAO.
I don't need to marry a man for money, I'll have my own. I have never married for money and I never will. I only marry for love. If I make more money then him, and it would be an issue, power, I would be the dominant in the relationship and I'm not interested in being the man in the relationship, no O's.
So if he really wants to marry me, he'll have to get his ass in gear and make more, after all he's better, faster and smarter then me. He can't figure it out, then he's not the man for me, find somebody else, at your level.
Most of these men here in middle class heaven want this:
1)to be saved financially
2)to be saved, their lives
3)won't save you financially
4)won't save your lives
It's a one way flow, them, them and them. A relationship takes two people to make it work, me and him not just him and I'm his slave or employee. It's a team and there is no I in team.